I like to listen to what others have to say about themselves

Listening, as others have already mentioned, in a skill. I believe this is absolutely true and, while considering my preferred style of listening, it became clear to me that I am primarily focused on trying to make a connection with others and coming to an understanding with other people. I try to empathize with other people's feelings and as a result I would consider myself a people-oriented listener.

My base instinct, when participating in conversation, is to try to see other people's interpretations of what they are expressing. I like to see how other people feel about things because this challenges my own interpretation of said things. To me, it seems, this is the most rewarding way of listening and I derive the greatest pleasure from conversation that allows for different points of view. Also, when participating in this sort of conversational environment, I get the greatest chance to debate or to offer my own interpretation of what is being discussed. Therefore; I am primarily focused on what other people have to say or how they feel about a particular subject.

Aside from trying to see other people's point of view, challenging my own ideas, or trying to offer a contrasting point of view, I really like to offer a friendly ear to those who need it. I feel I connect with people and reach a better understanding in this regard. I can't explain why this comes naturally to me, but perhaps it is a trait I developed because of my family members similar listening styles. In any case, I believe I have an ability to feel for other people and, in this vein, can usually offer emotional support or, in some cases, relevant advice. And, like I said, I derive the greatest pleasure from connecting to others in this sense. I sort of view myself as that friend who is always willing to listen to both the good the bad news regardless of the context. In fact, I hope to find future employment as a therapist and, chiefly, a professional people-oriented listener.